Are you Living by a Definition That No Longer Fits?

Mar 28, 2025

 At some point, we all absorb labels—words that shaped how we see ourselves. Sometimes they came from childhood. Sometimes from a job, a relationship, a passing comment that stuck longer than it should’ve.

“You’re the responsible one.”

“You’re too sensitive.”

“You never finish what you start.”

“You’re not good with money.”

Maybe no one said it directly. Maybe you just became the role everyone expected. The one who held it together. The one who didn’t ask for too much. The one who kept peace, stayed small, played safe.

But what happens when that definition starts to feel too tight?

What happens when you realize:

This isn’t me anymore.

Or maybe… it never really was.

Midlife gives us the gift—and sometimes the jolt—of being able to pause and ask:

Does this still serve me?

You get to say:

“That might’ve been true once… but it’s not who I am now.”

And you get to choose a new definition—one that feels aligned with the woman you’re becoming.

This isn’t reinvention. It’s reimagining.

It’s about loosening your grip on old stories and giving yourself permission to grow.

So I’ll leave you with this:

What’s one label, belief, or outdated version of yourself you’re ready to let go of?

You don’t have to do it all at once.

Just start by noticing. Awareness is power.

Here’s to redefining ourselves—without apology, and on our own terms.

With love,

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