Choice Creates: Crafting A Fulfilling 2024

Jan 4, 2024

Welcome to the dawn of 2024, dear Congruent Living Community! As we embark on this new chapter, I am thrilled to unveil the empowering theme guiding our journey throughout the year: “Choice Creates.” Join me in embracing the profound truth that our decisions act as the architects of our destiny.

Today, let me share a compelling story with you that echoes the essence of our chosen theme. Doran, a devoted professional and mother in our vibrant community, was at a crossroads. The juxtaposition of a promising career opportunity against the pressing needs of her family laid the foundation for a real-life illustration of how each decision carves a unique path forward.

Doran, seeking guidance, posed a potent question: “What does ‘choose it or lose it’ mean for the new year?” This mindset, a catalyst for decisive action, can also be a source of stress and hesitation. At this intersection of choice, our futures take shape, a truth we must acknowledge.

In her journey, Doran grappled with the Fear of Missing Out, caught in the pursuit of the perfect decision. The Overvaluation of Perfection, a common struggle, often paralyzes our ability to decide. Yet, as Doran discovered, sometimes the ‘good enough’ decision is the most fitting for our present circumstances.

Navigating choices, Doran confronted Information Overload in the digital age. She illuminated a path forward by simplifying her options and grounding her decisions in alignment with her values. High Expectations and Self-Pressure, familiar burdens, were also part of her journey. What if, as she learned, there were no right or wrong decisions? This perspective shift is vital.

Uncertainty and the Fear of Regret are universal experiences, and Doran’s fear resonates with many of us. Recognizing that each decision is a learning opportunity can mitigate these fears, transforming them into stepping stones toward growth.

Doran’s choice, harmonizing professional development with family life, is a testament to our theme, ‘Choice Creates.’ She curated a reality where career and family found equilibrium, demonstrating the power of intentional decisions.

Inspired by Doran’s journey, let’s take a moment to pause and assess our own paths. Understanding ourselves is the cornerstone of making congruent choices that lead to a fulfilling life. I invite you to explore susanselfcheck.com, where the Congruent Living Self Assessment awaits — a profound tool providing insights into your journey and personal development.

Let’s embrace new beginnings and align with our deepest values as we ring in the new year. The self-assessment is your first step, offering insights and guiding you toward choices that resonate with your truest self. Seize this moment to pause, reflect, and take the first step toward a congruent and fulfilling 2024. This modest act has the potential to unlock deep insights and lead to transformative decisions.

Know that I am here to support you on this journey, eagerly anticipating the incredible places we will go. Let’s commit to making 2024 our most purposeful and empowering year yet.

Remember, your choices create your future destiny – let’s go there together.

“Your choices create  your future destiny – let’s go there together.”

-Susan Lazar Hart-

Have a wonderful week filled with love and gratitude! Here’s to living a life you love. Big hugs,

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