What Are You Really Waiting For?

Apr 18, 2025

Have you ever found yourself saying:

  • “I’ll start when things calm down.”
  • “Once I feel more confident…”
  • “Maybe next month, when the timing is better…”

You’re not alone.

But here’s what I’ve discovered—waiting can feel safe, even productive… but most of the time, it quietly keeps us stuck.

We wait for clarity, for energy, for the perfect feeling.

And yet, the women I coach (and let’s be honest—me too) often find that clarity comes after we take action, not before.

So if you’ve been circling an idea, a dream, or a desire—and putting it off until “someday”—this is for you.

Here are 3 bold shifts to help you move out of waiting… and into momentum:

  1. Decide that now is enough.

Most of us are conditioned to believe we need to feel ready before we begin.

But readiness isn’t a magic moment—it’s a decision.

When you stop waiting to be more polished, more healed, more certain—and start trusting who you are right now—everything changes.

Truth: You are already enough to begin. Not someday. Today.

  1. Take one aligned action—today.

You don’t have to leap off a cliff. You just have to step.

Real momentum starts with small, intentional moves:

  • Send the message
  • Sign up for the class
  • Speak the truth
  • Ask for the support

Even a five-minute action sends a powerful message to your subconscious: I am no longer waiting. I’m living.

  1. Stop waiting for permission.

We’ve been taught to ask for approval—especially in midlife.

But here’s the thing: nobody else is going to come hand you the life you’re dreaming of.

This is the moment to crown yourself queen of your next chapter.

Ask yourself: Where am I waiting for someone else to say yes—when it’s mine to claim?

So, what’s one thing you could do today—just one small, bold move—that shifts your energy from waiting… to becoming?

If this stirred something in you, let’s talk.

I’ve opened up a few spots this week for Your Bold Shift calls—no pressure, just a meaningful chat about what’s possible when you stop waiting and start creating.

Book Your Bold Shift Call here!

Or send me a message—I’d love to hear what this brings up for you.

Your next chapter is not on pause. It’s waiting for you.

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